1 00:00:00,330 --> 00:00:07,140 Applying behavioral activation to your child's behavioral activation is closely tied to achievement 2 00:00:07,140 --> 00:00:13,620 of your goal, let's consider how the structure of this approach relates to your goals. 3 00:00:14,340 --> 00:00:21,450 John's number one goal was to improve his closest relationships as he started behavioral activation. 4 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:29,100 He focused on moderately easy activities involving his family members and close friends in the process. 5 00:00:29,130 --> 00:00:36,840 He realized he needed to tend to his own needs in order to be the husband, father and friend he intended 6 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:37,200 to be. 7 00:00:37,650 --> 00:00:44,640 For example, he realized he was more agreeable toward others when he went to the gym a few times a 8 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,240 week and eat healthy foods. 9 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,540 So John added these activities to this list. 10 00:00:54,170 --> 00:00:56,210 Values, activities, goals. 11 00:00:59,190 --> 00:01:05,970 Build a game plan around your goals, behavioral activation offers a step by step approach to reach 12 00:01:05,970 --> 00:01:06,540 your goals. 13 00:01:07,470 --> 00:01:13,260 The goals you set will guide the activities you choose and your activities will move you toward your 14 00:01:13,260 --> 00:01:16,920 goals for June being an involved parent. 15 00:01:16,950 --> 00:01:24,070 What was a value that gave rise to the goal to care about his kids every day to address that goal? 16 00:01:24,090 --> 00:01:28,070 He planned the specific activities of speaking with his kids every day. 17 00:01:30,210 --> 00:01:37,890 Work progressively toward goals, behavioral activation can bring you closer to your eventual goal by 18 00:01:37,890 --> 00:01:41,280 creating a series of increasingly challenging steps. 19 00:01:41,670 --> 00:01:47,400 For example, a person might have a goal to exercise 45 minutes a day, five times a week. 20 00:01:48,250 --> 00:01:54,840 A workout of that length might be a difficulty level three and behavioral activation soon. 21 00:01:54,840 --> 00:02:01,410 An intermediate activity could be a light 15 minutes workout to success. 22 00:02:01,410 --> 00:02:08,070 We find and there is your initial steps lays the foundation for more difficult and rewarding activities.